HAMAS Umum Keluar Dari Damsyiq Kerana Kekejaman Basshar

Iran bertentangan pendirian dengan Hamas berkaitan rejim Syria maka Hamas secara 

rasmi membantah tindakan keganasan rejim terhadap rakyat. Pimpinan mereka secara 

rasmi telah meninggalkan Syria.

Musa Abu Marzuq-Timbalan Biro Politik  Hamas telah keluar meninggalkan Syria.

Sumber dari Islam Memo

Save Syria-On A Mission To Help Project

Seperti kebiasaan hari-hari yang lepas,setiap pagi akan mencari berita-berita terkini tentang Syria.

Dan airmata saya mengalir lagi bila membaca terjemahan dari link ini.

‎(TAJUK BERITA) Seperti menyembelih kambing biri-biri: Tentera rejim Basyar Al-Asad menyembelih 64 orang pemuda di Baba 'Amru. 

Penyembelihan berlaku secara beramai-ramai awal semalam. 

Sumber Arabia.net melaporkan bahawa penduduk yang ketakutan   

telah melarikan diri sehingga mereka tiba di satu sekatan pasukan 

         keselamatan, mereka dibawa menaiki empat buah bas dengan alasan 

      kononnya untuk dibawa ke tempat yang lebih selamat. Anggota 

      keselamatan terbabit telah menurunkan warga tua sebelum 

     menyembelih kesemua pemuda-pemuda di dalam bas tersebut seramai 

     64 orang. Turut dilaporkan ialah kehilangan wanita-wanita yang 

     dikatakan telah diculik dan dibawa ke destinasi yang tidak diketahui. 

    Lebih menyayat hati, sumber melaporkan Hospital Kebangsaan di 

    wilayah Homs menerima 47 mayat yang terdapat kesan disembelih pada 

     leher mereka.

Mereka terus tabah menghadapi hari-hari yang berlalu.
Namun haruskah kita lihat sahaja penseritaan mereka?
Sepert kata-kata doktor dalam video ini.




"They are killing us in cold blood on a daily basis.


Why are you watching brutal crimes and doing nothing?" 

That is why I plan to collect some donations from family and friends.
I call it  "Save Syria-On A Mission To Help Project".
I plan to pass the awareness around and submit whatever donation is collected on a weekly basi.
Two NGOs have been recognized for this mission.
Islamic Relief Malaysia and Global Peace Mission.
I am not collecting on their behalf though.But collections will be passed on to them.

I have talked to person in charge of both respective NGOs.
And hope the word spreads.
If you want to help,do contact me via FB.

May Allah bless you.
May Allah give strength to Syrians.
May Allah topple Assad and his government.

Quotes from Productive Muslim Seminar-Talk to Allah and let Allah talk to you

Mentor for your nafs!

7 Daily Spiritual Productive Habits to Develop

You should aim to develop the following 7 Spiritually Productive activities into habits so that you can hopefully continue benefitting from them throughout your life. I consider these activities as the spiritual ‘bread and butter’ of any ProductiveMuslim. To develop them as habits is the essence of embarking on your journey towards the love of Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala) and constantly increasing in your eman, inshaAllah:

1) Pray the Sunnah Prayers before and/or after Prayer:

I know it’s easier to just pray the obligatory prayers and rush out of the mosque! However, when we realise the rewards we’re missing from not praying these Sunnah prayers we won’t leave them. Over the years I have learnt there’s only ONE way of getting yourself to pray these Sunnah prayers constantly: Get into the habit of praying them! They’ll soon become part and parcel of your Salah and your Salah will feel incomplete without performing these acts.

2) Remembrance of Allah after Salah:

Again, it’s easy to rush out after Salah due to our busy lives, though if we are honest, how long does it take to recite the supplications after Salah? (The Answer: 5-7 minutes!). If you’re not sure what I’m referring to, you may find the supplications atMakeDua.com. Nowadays you’ll find pocket notebooks/or phone applications with these supplications. Get into the habit of reciting them daily after each Salah to enrich your Salah experience.

3) Morning/Evening Remembrance of Allah:

Step 2 is also included in this habit. There exists a beautiful set of duas/remembrances from the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) which he used to say before sunrise and after sunset. They are true stress relievers and energy boosters which never fail to make my days and evenings feel blessed. [You can find the duas atMakeDua.com]

4) Night Prayer:

Hamdulillah, during Ramadan we have the wonderful Taraweeh prayers to attend. However, outside of Ramadan there are many opportunities to still obtain the reward of the night prayer. If you’re new to night prayer or you don’t pray it constantly during the year, make sure you try to attend prayers each and every night in congregation at the mosque (particularly brothers), and give yourself a ‘no-excuse’ policy. Develop a habit of praying Tahajjud and continuing to pray them for an entire 30 days; this will set you on better footing to continue with the Night Prayer for the rest of the year inshaAllah.

5) Duha Prayer:

Here’s a Productive Muslim’s top secret to a productive day: 2 rak’ahs known as the Duha prayer which you may pray at anytime after sunrise till before the sun reaches it’s zenith (around 30 minutes before Dhuhr). The reward of this prayer is similar to giving charity on behalf of every bone in your body, and the energy and buzz you feel during the day is amazing.

6) Supplications before you Sleep:

You’ve just had a long day and you’re super tired. You climb into bed and you want to hit the sack… but wait! Before you do, can you give yourself just 10 more minutes to recite the supplications before sleeping? That’s all. Try them and find yourself experiencing the most beautiful sleep ever and waking up for Fajr easily, inshaAllah. For more information on waking up for fajr, constantly, everyday, without fail Read How to Wake up for Fajr.

7) Reciting one hour of Quran each day:

Notice: I said here recite one hour of Quran each day and not one juz’ or one Surah. The amount of Quran you read is not as important as the quality of your understanding. If you spend one hour reciting one verse but understand it fully, that’s more important and beneficial then reciting lots of Quran at break-neck speed yet not understanding a word.

So there you go, 7 spiritually productive habits you can develop throughout the year starting from TODAY!

Source

Save Syria-On a mission to help.

Since a few weeks ago I have been sharing videos and infos about Syria.In intention to spread awareness amongs friends about what really is happening there and the sufferings they go through.


And since last week I feel that sharing infos is not sufficient.I need to do more!
And Allah gave me this idea to collect money to send to them.


Its winter...theres no electricity,lack of medication and food which they obviously are really in need of.
With the help of Brother Diaa Al-Juneidi I got to meet Brother Mohammad Abdullatif a Syrian and he gave suggestions to as where I should send the money.


I was so happy bout it but I hadn't had the chance to look through the NGOs mentioned.
But being me when I met Heliza Helmi just now at the Productive Muslim SeminarI just took the chance to tell her bout Syria and my plan to chip in.


Don't ask me why I approached her.Told you my actions do surprise even me!
And after luch I got an envelope from her for contribution.Subhanallah!Praise be to Allah!
And a million thanks to Heliza for believing and trusting me.When I talked to her I was only sharing bout it.


Honestly I didn't expect her to give her contributions there and then!
I thought I would do a kind of formal launching then contact her.
But since I have already got my jumpstar I CANNOT and WILL NOT look back!
So tonight I opened my laptop to contact someone who might be able to help me tgough I was unsure if she could.And suddenly I read Nur Shahidats comment to my thanks to her and the One Heart Creative Solution team for oragnizing this seminar.

• Annie Ahmad, Anyss Surayyah Che Lann and 2 others like this.
• • 
    

    Nur Shahidat Thanks for sweet cake :) and you need to start ur social productivity plan as soon as possible kak! I'm here to help and join, insyaAllah :)

Masya Allah...Its like Allah is answering my prayers.
So we discussed a bit and hopefully will come with a poster soon.


And I really do hope that everyone of you can contribute whether you're a student or a already working.
Even if its only RM1!It would mean something to them.
I will update more bout this project soon.


Thanks everyone.I know yo will all support this cause in the name of Allah.
May every Ringgit given open the doors of Barakah in your liives!

Productive Muslim Seminar and Me

When I was first invited to attend the Productive Mulim Seminar I wasn't sure what I would gain. I was actually quite nervous at first.

 And when Allah put a small hurdle infront of me I almost wanted to walk away.I didn't remember Salman came back this week.Plus I agreed to take in my friends son since she was going for Umrah.And my husband said that I should put the priority on family first.But my tickets were bought for me by my two nieces and turning the down wasn't the most approriate thing to do after they had already paid for the ticket.
Besides I thought it was just another motivational talk.
But I'm thankful that I didn't walk away.
 And I would like to thank my two beloved nieces Siti Nahawan Che Ibrahim and Salsabila for giving me the chance to attend. Barakallahulakuma. May Allah bless both of you and your family'
And congratulations to One Heart Creative Solution and Nur Shahidat for a successful seminar biizniLLah.


For what I thought was just a motivational talk was actually more of an Iman booster talk for me.Making me realise my position in front of The All Mighty.
For the first time in my life I was so eager to stand in front of My Lord My Creator.
All praises be to HIM! Allahu Akbar!

Had the chance to meet and talk to the sweet Heliza Helmi.
Even told her our our Kahfi Projects.Sometimes I surprise myself how I brag about it. Huhuhu

 

Met Maria Elena too and told her how my Shaima' watches her videos on how to wear the shawl.

P/S I made Choc Chip Cuppies and Banana Oat muffins on the first day to share with my nieces and friends and gave some to the Productive Muslim CEO Muhammad Abdullah Faris.May Allah bless him and bestow barakah in his life.

(See...I just keep surprising myself on things I do since I do things spontaneously sometimes.Huhuhu)

My Choc Chip Cuppies

Banana Oat Muffins.Yummy!

Save Syria (4)- Poster

This is a poster I made recently.

Share it if you want.

I really hope you will.

Save Syria (3)

This is song by Sheikh Rashid Mashari.

It tells how he weeps for the sufferings in Syria.

Even when I hear it over and over againeverytime will bring tears to my eyes and heart.

When will all this end?

Allah is the only Assistant.We don't have anyone else but YOU O Allah!

Save Syria (2)

Most recently a journalist for the Sunday Times has been killed in Syria, it was reported today (24/2/2012)

Marie Colvin, an American working for Britain's Sunday Times was killed in the besieged Syrian city of Homs when shells hit the house she was staying in. 

She was believed to be staying in the house with French photographer Remi Ochlik, who was also killed in the shelling. Source from EXPRESS.co.uk

That is something very bad and is against international law to kill a journalist.But I do believe they did it on purpose so that people like her do not tell the world what is actually happening in Syria.

Below is a video clip on news that she reported to the CNN.

Save Syria (1)

I haven't done justice to my blog lately.

I have been updating so much about Syria on my FB account on a daily basis but have not put any entries here.

Do you guys actually know whats happening there right now?

Or have you not known anything yet?

I must say I came to know it quite late.But from the day I got to know about whats actually happening in SyriaI have not stopped posting videos and news about it.

My heart weeps everytime I see  or read bout tehm.

But the world must be told the actual truth that has been covered  by the ruling people in Syria.

You can see the timeline here by Al-Jazeerah.

The movement in Syria against the government of Bashar al-Assad first started following protests in the southern city of Deraa in March and has since spread across the country.

In the early stages, protesters were calling for reform and an end to corruption, but as demonstrations were met with live bullets, the rallies changed tone, calling for the fall of the government.

The United Nations says more than 4,000 people have been killed in the uprising and thousands of others arrested.

Key events in Syria's protest movement: 
Dec 7 - Assad denies ordering his troops to kill peaceful demonstrators, telling the US broadcaster ABC that only a "crazy" leader kills his own people.

Dec 5 - Syria says it has conditionally approved an Arab League peace plan. In a letter to the League, Syria rejects foreign interference and demands the annulment of sanctions plus reinstatement in the regional bloc.

Nov 27 - The Arab League agrees to impose economic sanctions on Syria.

Nov 21 - UN General Assembly's Human Rights Committee condemns Syria for the crackdown, with 122 votes in favour, 13 against and 41 absentions.

Nov 20 - Rocket-propelled grenades hits a Baath Party building in Damascus. Syrian Free Army claims responsibility.

Nov 19 - Assad vows to pursue a crackdown on protests demanding his removal and says there will be parliamentary elections in February or March.

Nov 16 - Army defectors attacked an intelligence complex in the Damascus suburbs in what appears to be one of their boldest assaults so far against government security forces, Syrian activists said.

Nov 9 - Syrian protesters pelt four opposition leaders with eggs outside Arab League headquarters in Cairo, preventing them from entering the building for talks. The protesters were apparently against the men agreeing to a dialogue with the government.

Nov 2 -  The Syrian government accepts several measures suggested by the Arab League aimed at halting the violence in the country, including the removal of tanks and armoured vehicles from the streets, the release of prisoners, and allowing the Arab League and media access to report on the situation.

Nov 1 - NATO Secretary-General Anders Fogh Rasmussen rules out the possibility of military intervention in Syria.
Oct 30 -  Assad warns of an "earthquake" if the West intervenes in his country. In an interview with Britain's Sunday Telegraphnewspaper, he says international involvement would risk transforming Syria into "another Afghanistan". He also stresses Syria is key to keeping the peace in the region.
Oct 16 - The Arab League announces that it plans to bring together Syria's government and opposition groups to seek ways to end the violence in the country.
Oct 11 - Syria's most senior Sunni Muslim cleric warns the US and Europe that his country would unleash suicide bomb attacks in their countries if they launched military strikes against Syria.

"I say to the whole of Europe, I say to America: We will prepare our suicide bombers who are already with you if you
bombard Syria or Lebanon," Mufti Ahmad Hassoun, whose son was shot dead a week earlier, told a Lebanese delegation.
Oct 7 - Syria says that a national investigation is under way into killings, including those of 1,100 security forces, but denies allegations that loyalist forces had shot soldiers refusing to fire on protesters.

Russian President Dmitry Medvedev says Syria's leaders should step down if they cannot enact reforms, but warns the West not to try to push President Assad from power. 
Oct 4 - Russia and China join forces and veto a European-drafted UN Security Council resolution condemning Syria.

Oct 3 - Syrian opposition groups meet in Istanbul and reject foreign intervention but urge international action to stop what they call indiscriminate killings of civilians by the authorities.
Sep 29 - Assad supporters throw stones and tomatoes at US ambassador Robert Ford who is visiting centrist politician, Hassan Abdul-Azim, who has demanded an end to the crackdown.

Syria accuses the US of inciting violence against its security forces and says it will confront what it described as attempts to interfere in its domestic affairs.


Sep 15 - A group of Syrian activists form a Syrian National Council in Istanbul, Turkey, representing a united front in opposition to the Syrian government, marking the six-month anniversary of the beginning of the uprising.
Sep 10 - Nabil el-Araby, the head of the Arab League, says he has reached an "agreement on reforms" in Syria following talks with Assad.
Sep 2 - The EU adopts a ban on crude oil imports from Syria.
Sep 1 - The attorney general of Hama province says he has resigned over the crackdown on protesters. The authorities say his statement is "pure lies".

Aug 27 - Arab foreign ministers meeting in Cairo urge the Syrian government "to follow the path of reason before it is too late".

Aug 23 - Opponents of Assad meeting in Istanbul launch a "national council".
Aug 21 - Assad warns against foreign military intervention in his country in an interview broadcast on state TV, saying: "Any action against Syria will have greater consequences [on those who carry it out], greater than they can tolerate".

Aug 19 - A group of "revolutionary blocs" announces the formation of a coalition called the Syrian Revolution General Commission.
Aug 18 - US President Barack Obama and the EU call on Assad to step down.

Aug 9 - Ahmet Davutoglu, Turkey's foreign minister, meets Assad in Damascus and calls for an end to the bloodshed.
Aug 7 - Saudi Arabia recalls its ambassador from Damascus, followed by Kuwait and Bahrain.
Aug 4 - Assad issues a decree authorising political parties.

Aug 3 - The UN Security Council condemns the crackdown in a statement.
July 31 - Security forces reportedly kill nearly 140 people, including 100 when the army storms Hama to crush dissent on the eve of Ramadan.

July 25 - The government adopts a draft law authorising the creation of political parties alongside the ruling Baath party.
July 18 - Qatar closes its embassy in Damascus after it is attacked by Assad loyalists
July 15 - More than a million people take to the streets, according to activists.
July 10 - The main opposition groups boycott talks with the government and say they will not negotiate till Assad stops the violent crackdown and frees thousands of political prisoners.

June 27 - Syrian intellectuals call for sweeping political change at a rare conference allowed by the authorities.
June 20 - In his third speech since protests began, Assad pledges to pursue a national dialogue on reform. Assad says dialogue could lead to a new constitution and even end his Baath party's monopoly on power, but refuses to reform Syria amid "chaos".
June 17 - Syrian tycoon Rami Makhlouf, a cousin of the president who to many Syrians give the widespread corruption a face, says he is quitting business.

June 12 - Armed forces take control of Jisr al-Shughour as thousands of residents flee to Turkey. More than 12,000 people flee to neighbouring Turkey in the following week.
June 6 - State television says 120 security personnel have been killed in an ambush. Activists later say the deaths were a result of a split within the security forces.
June 3 - Security forces kill at least 63 protesters around Syria, including 53 in Hama, human rights groups say.

Apr 29 - The US decides to impose new sanctions on Syria's intelligence agency and two relatives of  Assad.
Al Jazeera journalist Dorothy Parvaz goes missing upon arrival at Damascus airport. She is later deported to Iran, where she is held until May 18.
Apr 25 - Syrian troops backed by tanks begin and 11-day siege of Deraa.
Apr 23 - At least 75 people are reportedly killed in Syria in the bloodiest day since the uprising began.

Apr 21 - Assad issues decrees to end nearly five decades of emergency law and to abolish much-criticised security courts. Opposition figures, however, are sceptical.
Apr 16 - After swearing in the new cabinet, Assad gives a televised address for the second time since protests began, pledging further reforms.    
Apr 14 - Adel Safar, a former agriculture minister, is named as prime minister in the new government.
President Assad orders the release of hundreds of protesters detained over the past couple of weeks but says those who committed crimes "against the nation and the citizens" would remain in jail.
Apr 7 - Assad issues a decree granting nationality to thousands of Kurds.
Apr 6 - The president announces decisions to close the country's only casino and to scrap a ruling that banned teachers from wearing the niqab.
Apr 1 - Four people are reportedly killed after government forces use live fire against protesters in the Damascus suburb of Douma.

Mar 30 - Assad delivers a speech for the first time since the protests began. He blames foreign conspirators for the unrest but declines to elaborate on major reforms. Mar 29 - The government resigns. Mar 23 - Syrian forces reportedly kill six people in an attack on protesters in the Omari mosque complex in Deraa, and later open fire on hundreds of youths marching in solidarity. An official statement says later that Assad has sacked Faisal Kalthoum as governor of Deraa. Mar 22 - Hundreds of people march in Deraa and nearby Nawa demanding freedom. It is the fifth straight day of demonstrations challenging the government. Mar 20 - Crowds set fire to the headquarters of the ruling Baath Party in Deraa. Marchers chant "No, no to emergency law. We are a people infatuated with freedom!". Mar 18 - Security forces kill three protesters in Deraa, residents of the southern city say. The demonstrators were taking part in a peaceful protest demanding political freedoms and an end to corruption in Syria. The protest was triggered by the arrest of teenagers writing anti-government graffiti on walls. Smaller protests take place in the central city of Homs and the coastal city of Baniyas. Mar 16 - Security forces break up a silent gathering in Marjeh square in Damascus of about 150 protesters who hold up pictures of imprisoned relatives and friends. Witnesses told rights group Amnesty International at least 30 people were arrested. Mar 15 - Dozens march in Damascus after a Facebook page call for a "Day of Dignity".

Source: Al Jazeera and agencies

Our 'Kahfi Project'

Jum'ah Mubarakah everyone!

Read your Kahfi yet? I've read mine this morning with Umamah.We usually read it on Tursday night but yesterday eas so tiring,both me and Umamah fell asleep right after maghrib prayers.Syaima' was not around coz she was sleeping in school for Qiyam so we were left just the two of us.

For the past week we always 'do' something to encourage people to read the Kahfi let it be a photo or status update or a poster.I would like to share here some of our 'Kahfi project' that we have done.

This was a short and brief video that we did two weeks ago.

This poster was done the week before.They didn't notice their foto being taken at this time.

Since 3 weeks ago we read the Quran together on Fiday night 

coz its a bit rushing to read before they go to school.

This was last week.It hasn't been easy for them to read the whole surah in one seating but its easier now.

With a lot of love,praise and support now they are able to do so.Alhamdulillah.

May Allah give us all istiqomah to read Suratul Kahfi every Friday.

Semalam...

Banyak perkara berlaku dalam hidup ini tanpa diduga.

Kita bangun mengadap dunia, dengan harapan matahari akan menyinari setiap langkah yang diambil.

Tapi tiba-tiba....

Kita ambil simpang yang silap.

Orang kata kadang simpang silap yang kita ambil boleh memabawa ke jalan yang betul.

Tapi entahlah...

Apa yang berlaku semalam memang datang tanpa saya nampak kelibatnya.

Tiba-tiba je...dushhh!!.

Saya tersalah lagi.Tapi saya tak akan terus menghukum diri.

And theres no turning back.

Ianya tidak akan membantu.

Saya hanya mampu berdoa agar Allah memimpin saya.

Walau apa pun outcomenya.

Saya perlu yakin inilah yang terbaik bagi saya.

Saya amat rindu untuk bersamaNYA.

Biarlah dunia menolak saya sekalipun,asalkan DIA sentiasa bersama saya.Saya akan terus bertahan.

SMILE...!

Smile..and the world will smile back to you!

Even if they don't...just keep smiling, 

Coz a smile is a sadaqah...

Cukuplah Allah Bagiku

Bila orang baling sesuatu kepada kita...

tarik nafas,senyum

 dan kembalikan kepadanya dengan doa.

 Allah Maha Kaya. 

Cukuplah DIA bagi kita.

Tips Kahwin Muda Dan Cara Berhadapan Dengan Ibu Bapa

Saya kenal ramai pelajar yang ingin berkahwin dalam tempoh pengajian.Namun ada yang tidak mampu berbuat demikian kerana beberapa halangan.Namun jika mereka ingin berkahwin atas asas agama,insya Allah Allah akan permudahkan bagi mereka urusan mereka.Kalau pun ada sedikit ujian,anggaplah ianya ujian dari Allah untuk melihat sejauh mana kesunguhan anda.Doa dan usaha hendaklah seiringan demi mendapat restu ibubapa.Perkahwinan adalah urusan suci yang perlu dilaksanakan dengan cara yang baik dan bijaksana kerana ia membabitkan urusan jangka masa panjang.

Di sini saya ingin kongsikan beberapa tips yang telah saya baca dari I LUV ISLAM.com.

Perkahwinan merupakan salah satu tuntutan Islam yang wajib sekiranya seseorang individu tersebut mempunyai kelayakan dan cukup syarat untuk menjalankan tanggungjawab sebagai seorang suami ataupun isteri. Dalam masyarakat kita pada hari ini, tidak ramai yang memilih untuk melaksanakan perkahwinan dalam usia yang muda. Muda disini adalah dalam lingkungan 20-24 tahun.

Usia sebegitu seringkali dianggap sebagai belum cukup dewasa atau matang bagi memenuhi tuntutan dalam perkahwinan. Namun ianya bukanlah satu masalah yang tidak boleh diselesaikan. Terdapat beberapa tips bagi mereka yang ingin mendirikan mahligai perkahwinan seawal usia 20-24 tahun.

Berikut adalah tips-tips yang boleh anda cuba ikuti :-

1- Anda harus menonjolkan akhlak dan peribadi yang baik kepada ibubapa, adik-beradik, saudara mara serta orang sekeliling. Sahsiah diri yang terpuji mampu meyakinkan ibubapa untuk ‘melepaskan’ anda ke dunia lain yang lebih mencabar iaitu perkahwinan.

2- Tunjukkan kematangan anda dalam setiap pekerjaan yang anda lakukan. Baik dari segi membuat keputusan mahupun dalam berfikir dan bertindak. Kematangan dalam kepimpinan juga penting bagi lelaki yang ingin mendirikan rumahtangga seawal usia yang muda.

3- Jaga ibadah dan amalan sebagai seorang Muslim yang baik. Lakukan amalan wajib dengan sempurna dan tingkatkan amalan-amalan sunat yang lain sebagai persediaan rohani sebelum bergelar pasangan suami isteri.

4- Beritahu keluarga dan orang-orang terdekat anda bahawa perkahwinan yang bakal anda dirikan bukanlah berlandaskan nafsu semata-mata. Akan tetapi perkahwinan yang anda ingin dirikan adalah sebagai memenuhi salah satu tuntutan ibadah dan tanggungjawab seorang Muslim.

5- Anda juga perlu menunjukkan sedikit sumber pendapatan yang anda miliki sekarang bagi meyakinkan ibubapa anda untuk anda berumahtangga. Sumber tersebut adalah seperti gaji bulanan, side income serta simpanan anda terdahulu. Bagi yang masih belajar, usahakan untuk mencari side income sendiri dengan melakukan kerja-kerja luar (part-time) ataupun berniaga sendiri secara kecil-kecilan. Ini penting sebagai keyakinan kepada ibubapa bahawa anda mampu untuk menganggung pasangan seawal usia muda.

6- Buat pasangan yang masih belajar, letakkan usaha dan ilmu di tahap yang tertinggi. Pastikan perancangan anda untuk mendirikan perkahwinan tidak mengganggu pelajaran dan fokus anda sebagai pelajar. Fahamkan pasangan dan ibubapa tentang komitmen utama anda. InsyaAllah mereka akan menyokong dengan baik.

7- Jalankan tugas dan tanggungjawab anda dengan lebih baik dari kebiasaan bagi 'membeli' kepercayaan dan keyakinan ibubapa dan pasangan yang anda mampu menjalankan tanggungjawab sekiranya berkahwin kelak.

8- Anda perlu bijak dalam melakukan perbincangan bersama keluarga bagi menyatakan hasrat anda berkahwin seawal usia yang muda. Cari mood yang baik dan pastikan kesemua tips-tips di atas sudah dipenuhi. Bawa berbincang dan tunjukkan kesungguhan anda dalam perkara ini. Ambil hati ibubapa anda supaya mereka dapat mendengar dengan baik dan tidak membantah. Minta juga nasihat dan pendapat dari mereka.

9- Sekiranya cadangan dan permintaan anda ditolak, jangan berputus asa. Teruskan usaha dan tunjukkan kesungguhan yang mendalam terhadap perkara ini. InsyaAllah lama-kelamaan keyakinan dan kepercayaan ibubapa anda akan datang dan mereka sendiri akan menanyakan semula permintaan anda untuk berkahwin. Terus berdoa usaha dan tawakal.InsyaAllah.

Mu'awwidz dan Nur Fatin Kamaluddin yang juga berkahwin  sewaktu masih belajar malah masih berada di dua negara yang bebeza.Alhamdulillah kedua-duanya mendapat sokongan keluarga.Semoga mereka akan terus berbahagia hingga ke Syurga.